Q2: The Non-Things

Thursday, July 28, 2011

If seasons are like candy, then winter is an Everlasting Gobstopper and summer is a brightly colored gum-ball from the 25 cent machine. By the time you gnaw on it long enough to actually begin chewing, the initial burst of sugary flavor is gone and all that remains is a hard, squiggly mass that is heading straight for the closest trash can. In light of the brevity of this fair season, I have been trying my hardest to savor each second, and blogging has not made it onto my to-do list. So, though we are nearly 1/3 of the way into Q3, please allow me to reflect...

My Favorite Non-Thing, Things, of 2011, Q2,
  1. House Guests... being the 'ones who moved away' makes our times with visitors extra special, and the spring of the year brought many of our favorite folks to town. We enjoyed a long weekend with my hubby's cousin, Kyndal, from Pittsburgh, her hubby, Brett, and their two pint-sized cuties.. Though Kyndal and I realized we'd only actually met in person a couple of times, we have really bonded via Facebook, Skype, emails, texts, etc... over the past couple years as we've each begun the journey into Mommydom. My precious sis-in-law, affectionally known as Aunt Kiki, paid us a visit for a weekend in early April and liked Denver so much that she moved here and became our neighbor! My sweet Charlotte girls, Byers and Lilly, spent a week with us in June, and Pookie reveled in all extra attention from the big girls. We truly had a ball, and the week went by far too quickly. My cousin, Roxie, paid us an impromptu Friday evening visit as she was road-trippin' from Oregon to Pennsylvania. Loved seeing her for a quick catch up, but the visit was far too short! 
  2. Vacations... I have an expression that I often use, "If your kids are going, it's a trip; if they're not, it's a vacation!" Well, thankful to my wonderful mom (AKA Nanny AKA Babs), hubby and I were able to take two vacations-yes, that means sans kiddos. In April, we spent a long weekend in Montego Bay, Jamaica, for the wedding of a dear friend of mine. That trip marked the first morning in over six months, that I had woken up on my time rather than that of an infant's. We had a wonderful time seeing a new place and meeting new people, all the while realizing that Jamaica was jut the appetizer to the main course that would be arriving in late May. The day before Memorial Day, we embarked for a week long vacation to HAWAII! It was an amazing time to get away together and celebrate our five year wedding anniversary. We spent a whole lot of time doing a whole lot of nothing, and it was divine.
  3. Memoirs... I love a good book, particularly a good memoir. Unfortunately since the birth of my second child, I have rarely been able to read an entire issue of US Weekly without falling asleep, let alone an entire book. Well, thanks to the vacations we took, I was able to read three books cover to cover (well, technically, two were IPAD versions)! I read: Lies Chelsea Handler Told Me (Chelsea Handler and friends), Bossy Pants (Tina Fey), and Stories I Only Tell My Friends (Rob Lowe.) Each was great in its own right: I've read and enjoyed all of Chelsea's books; Tina's book had me, literally, laughing out loud; and I was especially impressed with Rob Lowe's talent as a writer. He not only had interesting stories to tell, but he told them well and without the help of a co-writer. 
  4. The Start of Summer... as I stated at the beginning of this post, summer just goes by way too quickly, but those first tastes of it were just amazing. When May began to bring days in the 70's that allowed Saturday morning breakfast picnics and evening strolls, I felt my spirit begin to lift. I don't think I realized how long winter had lasted until our first tastes of summer (we really didn't have a spring this year) appeared. There's something both invigorating and rejuvenating about sunshine, longer days, and green grass!
  5. Watching My Girls' Relationship... I could be a bit partial, but I have to say that I think Carter may be the most loving, kind, caring big sister. Ever. She is eager to be the first one to Murphy's room when she hears that she's awakened from a nap. She bounces up the stairs, throws open the door, and climbs right into the crib to give Murphy kisses and hugs. If Murphy is sad, Carter tries her hardest to make her happy even if it means giving up one of her own toys. And, Murphy, well, she can't say it yet, but I can tell she's pretty crazy about Carter, too. She does lots of staring and smiling and cooing in her direction. And I am completely envious of their sisterly bond and am loving watching every second of its evolution. 
As Non-thing, Things, go Q2 was pretty amazing.

We Lewellens Are Busy

Monday, March 21, 2011

Busy. Busy. Busy. And, of course, I know everyone is these days. For our family, though, I must say that this period of time in our life is feeling quite more 'filled' than any previous time. Allow me, if you will, to break it down for you...

  • February 17-March 1... the girls and I visited family and friends in North Carolina. (Feel free to relive this fiasco in my previous blog...)
  • March 8-10... hubby attended his company's annual meet in Beaver Creek leaving a post-travel-exhausted Mommy home alone with two post-travel-hyper kiddos.
  • March 12-15... Misha-N-Pops paid us a visit which was great fun. Pookie especially enjoyed the early birthday party which was complete with a 9 pound cake and yots and yots of presents! 
  • March 15-18... Uncle Mike (my Uncle Mike, not to be confused with hubby's Uncle Mike) and Cousins Kristen and Michael popped in for a Spring Break visit.
  • March 21-23... hubby is currently in San Diego which I hear gets its name from a whale's vagina (gotta love some Anchorman!)
  • March 29-April 3... Aunt Kiki is coming for a visit... can't wait for her to log some QT with the girls!
  • April 12-April 26... Nanny returns! because...
  • April 14-18... hubby and I are headed to Jamaica, Mon! for my girlfriend Tamar's wedding.
  • April 28-May 2... Cousins Kyndal and Brett and their darling fellas Kaiser and Porter are leaving Pittsburgh behind for a weekend in the Mile High!
  • May 29-June 4... hubby and I are Hawaii bound!
  • June 10-June 17... my favorite Charlotte gals are coming for their annual summer visit.
Peppered into all the craziness is hubby's birthday, our five year wedding anniversary, Carter Lilly's birthday, Easter, Mother's Day, Father's Day, the end of the school year, swim lessons, gymnastics, solving Murphy Girl's schedule and poop dilemmas,  starting her on solid foods (and hopefully convincing her that a bottle of milk is not her mortal enemy), trying to get rid of this darn baby belly in order to not be completely humiliated during our beachy trips, and generally ensuring that everyone survives the insanity with both a sane mind and a healthy body.

I must confess: this blog is mostly written for me. I'm hoping that it will be a nice reference point for me when I forget who's coming and who's going and when and where the comings and goings are occurring. 

I have a favorite quote: "Anticipation is the purest form of pleasure." I heard this several years ago, and it really resonated with me. When days are long and full of lots of whining (and, thus, lots of wine-ing), I certainly do take great pleasure in anticipating all the fun, memory making days that await us in the next few months. Looking at the bulleted points of busyness above does not make me feel stressed or overwhelmed. It makes me feel fortunate that so many folks want to come visit our toddler infested home. It makes me feel loved. It makes me feel blessed. 

Life is good. Very, very good. 
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